If there’s anything valuable that I have been taught from Acme Achievers ‘ Singapore NLP Practitioner course, it has to be the NLP Anchoring tool, NLP Perceptual Position and NLP Reframing Strategy.
NLP Anchoring Helps Manages My State
First, having the ability to maintain an ingenious state in negative situations is a valuable benefit of applying NLP anchoring technique.
During one of my forex trades, I took a really massive paper loss, which promised to wipe out my capital. It may have been an intensely stressful period watching the losses stacking up over 2 weeks.
Applying the anchoring technique kept me confident that God will give me a miracle as the anchors used buttressed religion, hope and love. Indeed four weeks later, the currency I was trading had an important rally and I had a reasonable profit. Without applying the anchoring method, I in all probability might have panicked and close the losing trade with a massive loss.
Worse still, I won't be concentrating fully on my students ‘ tuition during their exams. I could lose the convincing reputation that I had slowly established over the years. Now It's usually possible to elicit and maintain a positive and inventive state at all times.
NLP Perceptual Positioning Tool Manages My Relationships
The next tool that I'd like to share is NLP Perceptual Position. Thru the utilisation of Perceptual positioning, it has helped me to see, feel and identify with folks better whom I had conflicts with.
For example, a good client of mine once counseled her best buddy to me. Nevertheless her best friend had certain requests that were rather inconvenient for me to fulfill. As time rolled by by, the issue started to generate resentment in me. Customarily I am always appreciate and am grateful to clients who help to commend other clients to me and this especially good client’s bountiful suggestions established 40% of my private teaching business.
So it was extremely difficult to talk about the problem with either of them for fear of spoiling the goodwill between us. Through the utilising of NLP perceptual positioning, I was able to understand both my clients ‘ point of views and positive intentions for their behaviors. This understanding allowed me to better negotiate win-win circumstances for everybody. Everybody was satisfied at the end!
NLP Reframing Techniques
Finally, the last experience that I would like to share about applying NLP in life has to do with some negative and terribly unpleasant experiences I used to have with some army highers.
Previously, I felt they were not receptive to an open culture as suggested by the Commandant of an army institution during my national service. So I have a tendency to clamp up when meeting people who are of higher authority than me. This prevented me from voicing suggestions and viewpoints that would otherwise have been constructive. Such a snag does not give an excellent impression to folk who have helped advance my career.
In the 9 days in depth Singapore NLP Practitioner course, I managed to reframe the situation by borrowing the resources of a role model. I acted as though I am a highly rated officeholder. After the NLP session, a colleague from a big private school where I was working part-time invited me to her farewell lunch.
Unknown to me, the Managing Director and the Dean of Science were hosting the lunch and I was allocated a seat right between both of them. During the past, I'd have felt extraordinarily uncomfortable. But this time, I just felt completely relaxed and very confident. I was able to share my views and suggest some ideas from my experiences with their competition. They found my sharing very useful to them. The lunch went on particularly well and I knew I had conquered this obstacle with NLP!
Being one of only a few excellent and proactive competent NLP Trainer in Singapore, Jacky Lim is often highly wanted due to his remarkable zeal in presenting steady affecting NLP Singapore Practitioner workshops for company and sales professionals. Pay a visit to his NLP blog for extra free NLP tips. Visit his website for more information: http://www.LearningNLPTechniques.com.sg
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